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With Survivors, Always: Delia’s Story of Courage and Healing
October marks National Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), a time to honor survivors, raise awareness, and educate communities about the devastating impact of domestic violence. What began in 1981 as a “Day of Unity” has grown into a nationwide movement, officially recognized by Congress in 1989. Each year, DVAM reminds us of the importance of recognizing abuse, supporting survivors, and fostering safe, healthy relationships.
This year’s theme, “With Survivors, Always,” underscores a powerful truth: survivors deserve unwavering support, safety, and solidarity. Delia’s story is a testament to that truth—and to the life-changing impact of compassionate care.
For 20 years, Delia endured emotional, physical, and sexual abuse at the hands of her husband. “He used to call me his Barbie,” she recalls, “and made me dress in provocative clothing. I wasn’t allowed to look him in the eye. I was a prisoner in my own home.” Her husband used sex as a weapon of control, and for years, Delia didn’t realize that what she was experiencing—even within marriage—was rape.
On Valentine’s Day, she made the courageous decision to leave. With nothing but the clothes on her back, she sought refuge with a friend, who encouraged her to contact The Women’s Center. There, Delia began the journey of healing. In therapy, she disclosed childhood sexual abuse by a family friend—trauma she had carried silently since age nine. “My counselor said, ‘No more secrets,’” Delia shares. “She even helped me tell my family about the abuse from my husband. They’d suspected for years and were relieved I finally left.”
For two years, she received counseling through The Women’s Center. “The only reason I’m alive is because of The Center,” she says. “My therapist listened, reassured me, and helped me understand the abuse was never my fault. I’m a different person now—I make eye contact, I smile, I’m not afraid anymore.”
Today, Delia is surrounded by love. She kisses her children and grandchildren, and shares life with a husband who treats her with kindness and respect. Her story is a powerful reminder of why DVAM matters: because survivors like Delia deserve to be seen, heard, and supported.
Domestic violence affects millions, often in silence. According to the CDC, over a third of female rape victims and more than one in eight male victims were assaulted by an intimate partner. The trauma can be long-lasting, leading to depression, PTSD, and suicidal thoughts. That’s why DVAM calls us to action—to recognize the signs, uplift survivor voices, and ensure that help is always within reach.
Delia’s journey from survival to joy reflects the heart of DVAM: With survivors, always.
If you or a loved one has been a victim of intimate partner violence, please reach out to our Rape Crisis and Victim Services program at 817.927.2737.
Source: https://www.cdc.gov/nisvs/documentation/NISVSReportonIPV_2022.pdf
https://web.doane.edu/offices-services/student-services/cape-project/the-facts
https://rainn.org/facts-statistics-the-scope-of-the-problem/statistics-victims-of-sexual-violence